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Malini Murmu, a bright student of IIM Banglore committed suicide after reading a facebook status of her boyfriend Abhishek Dhan. As per news channels the message was something like this,
"Feeling super cool today. Dumped my new ex-girlfriend. Happy independence day.”
This disturbed her and she decided to take revenge by committing suicide.She wrote on the white board in room,“He ditched me. This is the best I can do to take revenge.”
It's really a sad news. A bright B.Tech student from KIIT,a good emloyee of Infosys who had joined a prestigious MBA course of IIMB ended her life in such tragic way.It's completely sad to see such a high IQ student,didn't had good EQ. She took very extreme step to teach her boyfriend,a lesson.
Is it really a Facebook which became reason of her death? or should we blame her boyfriend for her death? No, it's completely her fault as she could not deal with her emotional outbreak.She didn't even thought about her parents (who stay at Ranchi) before ending her life. Tragic and Stupid ....
Life style disorder,peer pressure, break-ups in life etc. are becoming new reasons for deaths of several youth in Metro cities.Recently, we saw the news of L & T employee from Thane who killed her wife and tried to show it as suicide case.That 24 yr boy was also a bright Engineer from VJTI. How can brilliant people take such drastic steps?
People are dying of brain haemorrhage due to lot of stress. Youngster below age 30 suffering from pressure on heart. Even dying by heart attack. It shows how the pace of life is killing youth at prime time.
It's very important to have friendly relationships with your children,when they enter in adulthood.As they need maximum emotional support during their early twenties. Rather than cursing the new generation you should try to understand them,guide them. Because even if you have faith in your up-bringing, friend circle and peer pressure plays vital role in their life. 'Move on' and 'live-life fullest' philosophies have been misinterpreted by youth.Materialism has become Mantra of coolness and Volatile relationships has become fashion. Mental stability is missing behind the fast-money ambition.This is not only applicable to youth in Metro cities.Second tier cities shows the same trend.
Youth energies if channelized properly,can make wonders. So there is really a requirement of good social science tools which can be used to educate youth about humanity & spirituality. So that they can handle their emotions,mental pressures,passions etc. There are many ways to stop such 'meaningless deaths' & prevent other youngster from taking such terrible steps.
Just imagine,how could have Malini's parents felt when they learned about her suicide for the first time. Ahhh..it's really painful. Our sympathy for them.
Let's pray for Malini Murmu's soul !!